As much to shut her up as anything, i told her i only liked men. If we stopped telling people aged 13-18 that they’re still children, that they can’t be trusted, that they need massive books of rules and laws to define what they’re allowed to do, that they are incompetent? we will get exactly what we’ve predicted. I say “embarrassing” because i assumed being a virgin at that age was something wrong — that i was unwanted, ugly, undesirable and therefore, unworthy as a woman, that all the times i had said no to sex because i didn’t like the guy or didn’t feel confortable with it had made me a prude and that i probably didn’t deserve the sex. He had been lying out here on the bed and obviously heard everything that had gone on in the adjacent bathroom.
Stories about lost virginity in boys. It’s the done thing for boys to carry condoms, and most girls would expect it, but i suppose if a boy didn’t produce one only 50 per cent of the girls would say anything. Mary was most likely 13 or 14 when she had jesus. This whole thing just sounds like a cry for serious help. I wouldn’t lie to defend your character (or anyone else’s), although i might choose to keep my mouth shut when sharing my personal observations would not serve anyone.
This week, guys responded to a reader’s request: “i want your ‘how and why i lost my virginity’ stories. Whatever information imparted to me was done so on a monday, because i remember that evening i came down with a terrible cold.