I can confirm this, as another woman in my early 50s who had sex for the first time at age 21. When you talk about sex, you sound like a mature middle aged person, not some sort of teenager. Its entirely possible to choose activities based on what you personally enjoy. Right alongside your other hobbies. * loss of virginity meant being vaginally penetrated; since men don’t have vaginas, a man would not be considered a virgin even if he’d never had sex. Spacey young grandmother who would be his perfect other half.
Boys losing their virginity. But emotionally, in my gut, i was still in that weird place of discomfort. I was either not alive or too young to be contemplating the economics of nevada brothels for most of the period you describe. Or getting pregnant for that matter. I came to this site because i saw the title and thought it would share the same sentiments that i have but it’s the same old “there is nothing wrong with virginity, just focus on yourself and you will have sex some say day” which is funny because you are still focusing on virginity and sex. Even the charming rake who had sex with women outside those established norms is essentially a high-class trope. Okay, then this is the experience that you made.
And that’s why you get the responses you get. How well you collaborate when you get there matters a lot.